July 31, 2023
The streets of Wilmington, N.C., are filled with tourists these hot summer days. If any want to cool off, the Wrightsville and Carolina beaches are close. The city sits astride a peninsula, bounded by the fast-flowing Cape Fear River and the Atlantic. The river separates it from tidal marshes and spreading suburbs. The decommissioned battleship North Carolina lies at anchor across the river from downtown.
Beautiful old homes line the streets of Wilmington’s historic neighborhood, which surrounds the old Catholic basilica, St. Mary’s and the First Presbyterian Church. The riverfront is a tourist bar/café strip. Farther uptown is a compact business district, where cotton and slaves once were sold. Pricey two-story condos built as houseboats are tied up along the river, fitted with outboard motors for maneuvering among the quays.
Freighters and containerships sail up the Cape Fear to unload at a pier east of town. Miles of tidal flatness and scrub forest extend from the river to the north, south, and west.

Wilmington once was the state’s largest city. In 1898 a White supremacist uprising against the Black-majority municipal government killed some 60 people. Jim Crow segregationist laws and practices settled in, as throughout most of the South, and racial tensions simmered in the city for decades.
We’ve visited the town a half-dozen times while staying with friends in Leland, just across the Cape Fear. They moved from our Virginia hometown years ago and built their own place when Wilmington-area real estate was starting to explode. Today U.S. 17, the main route down the coast, is lined with new residential subdivisions, strip malls, and golf courses. Signs along 17 point to hurricane evacuation routes. This stretch of coast usually is a target.
From upstate South Carolina the Wilmington trip is a tough one via four interstates, 385, 26, 20, 95, and someday-to-be I-74. On 26 we meet the beach people transiting the sweltering midstate past Columbia en route to the romantically nicknamed Low Country, with its interminable flat scrub woods and marshes. Charleston, Myrtle Beach, and Hilton Head are the big draws.
Apart from Wilmington’s chic downtown and old homes, the visitor may pick up an odd sense of distance, separation. The Tarheel State is a brilliant kaleidoscope: spectacular peaks west of Asheville that meld with the wide central piedmont and its cosmopolitan urban centers, Charlotte, Durham, Greensboro, Raleigh, Winston-Salem. Bryson City, at the far western tip of the state and a gateway to Great Smoky National Park and Tennessee, is almost 400 miles from Wilmington.
The eccentric coastal strip stretches east from I-95. The terrain flattens out. Two roads, I-40 and hybrid 74 cross rural, near-empty country for 100 miles. Eventually the Cape Fear winds by and Wilmington appears, breaking up the scrub forest. North of the city a couple of Marine Corps bases, Camp Lejeune and Cherry Point, and some scattered out-of-the way tidal places are all that line the waterfront. Offshore are uninhabited barrier islands.

Thirty miles south of Wilmington is Southport, a tourist stop at the wide mouth of the Cape Fear, which also is the Intercoastal Waterway in these parts. It’s a pretty spot on the water, rich with pre-Revolutionary War history, and now souvenir shops and seafood places. Beyond the town is south-facing Oak Island, a vacation destination packed with rentals, summer businesses, and expensive homes, which now are being built on stilts.
We drove across the island with friends and stopped at a community marina and walked across the sand. The beach stretches east back to Bald Head Island, and west to Holden and Sunset beaches, as the shoreline curls south.

The late afternoon sky was overcast, promising rain. A stiff breeze whipped the surf. The water was a pale brown, reminding us that the soft, deep beach sand had been dredged from offshore, at a cost of millions, to provide a playground for the locals and vacationers. Sand has been molded by plows into fake dunes, and beach grass planted to anchor them.
We all have heard the stories about what the ocean is doing to East Coast beaches. As the seas rise with worldwide climate change, the coastlines are giving up inches each year to the rapacious surf. Retirees and dreamers who sunk big money into ostentatious beach-facing homes now peer nervously through their living room windows at the flood tides. After each storm a few houses go missing.
We walked a bit, took pictures, sloshed in the eerily warm incoming tide. A few souls stood knee-deep here and there, but the crowd was thinning. I looked out at the horizon, a few faint ship silhouettes broke the line where sea meets sky. On that spit of land on the far eastern rim of the country, the colorful complexity of this huge state seemed remote. The sea, as it roared and crashed on the beach, soothed our spirits.
The narrow, flat, humid Wilmington-Southport strip seems a kind of distant outpost. It could be a last stop for old folks who love the sea but can’t stomach Florida, and for Carolina westerners and mid-staters who need their escape from mountains and work. It was a happy spot, after all, a seaside resting place wedged between the hundreds of miles of tidal desert north to Elizabeth City, just below Virginia, and south to Myrtle Beach.
The remoteness struck a chord. It’s hard to find this place, sequestered from interstates and cities. We know others, Virginia Beach, Ocean City, Rehoboth, all perched at the ends of traffic-choked highways. I thought then of Amagansett, at the far eastern end of Long Island, N.Y., the still-hidden gem of the Atlantic seacoast, that also faces south.
Four years ago Sandy and I drove to the Island and stood on the near-empty Amagansett beach, watching the dark cold sea crash against the sand. Nearby were the cottages my folks rented for our summer trips, unchanged over 60 years. I recalled my little-kid adventures there, before starting high school.
As we walked to the Oak Island parking lot, a warm breeze roiled the beach grass, warning of the coming storm. I looked at the stunted trees, the dark tidal pool, the hazy horizon. This end of the earth is different, a little strange. Someday we’ll pause here again. Maybe.






