October 5, 2026
Some years ago our eldest daughter led a campaign in Washington, D.C. to establish “Car-Free-D.C. Day.” A ten-block area of downtown was closed to auto traffic for a day. She was working for urban sustainability, livability, the idea of freeing cities from domination by traffic.
The idea caught on, now it’s observed in other places. But unless you live in a few major cities, your car is critical to your life. The bus or the train is probably an alien experience.
The tale here is a lot like others. Everyone who owns a car has a story of breakdowns, sky-high repair bills, accidents, insurance disputes, or worse. Your vehicle is much like your house. I read that the average new-car purchase is financed over 70 months, average payments, $765.
Car ownership or non-ownership has a metaphysical aspect. My parents, eons ago, changed their lives when they moved from a New York City apartment to the New Jersey boondocks. They went from a short stroll, subway, or bus ride to everything they needed or wanted, to being stranded, miles from a train or bus. They bought a used car, then another, then another, and so on. Once the family car broke down on New York’s West Side Highway. My dad returned later to find the wheels and battery missing.
Your car may say something about your personality, your life outlook. American or foreign? Kia Soul subcompact or Dodge Ramcharger? A friend who has lived in New York all his adult life remarked awhile back that he has never owned a car or a lawnmower. “Perpetual adolescence,” he said.
For car owners, there’s eventually a moment of truth. When your maintenance agreement has expired and you’ve become a regular client of the service center, when do you decide it’s time to get off the repair treadmill and put those maintenance dollars into another vehicle, new or used?
Two weeks ago we were at Graydon Tire and Automotive Service, two miles from our place on a busy suburban highway. Customers generally are pleased and return when they need work. So do we. But eventually your luck may run out. And your oil.
We had asked Nick, the assistant manager, to look for oil leaks from our 2012 Volkswagen Jetta, which has racked up 140,000 miles. “There’s a lot of oil,” he said in a sympathetic tone. We had seen oil spots on the garage floor. This was not the first time.
Nick said, “You’re looking at the oil pan and oil gasket. The parts themselves aren’t really that expensive, but in this car there’s a lot of labor in getting to them. So I would say around $1,800. But then there’s a lot of wires that have to be either taken out or moved. Then we don’t know if oil is leaking in other places. So there’s probably more cost. These German cars—they’re complicated.”
Nick didn’t sound enthusiastic about doing the work. His shop has three full-time mechanics and two part-timers. They’re almost always slammed. He schedules appointments a week out. We thanked Nick and drove home. I spread a tarp on the garage floor and pulled the car over it. The next morning we saw spots.
Three years ago, the local VW dealership, when doing an oil change, gave me an estimate of about $1,800 on fixing something that may be causing oil to leak. This was a week before our Ireland trip. I may have said we’d look at it. But I didn’t see any dripping oil. I forgot about it.
A few months later I went back to the dealership for another oil change. It’s a 20-mile round trip down the interstate, the work took two hours. The service people suggested the car could use additional work that would come to around $1,500. Non-urgent, but needed eventually, they said. It might have had to do with oil.

I don’t know enough about cars to know the difference between nice-to-have and critical. But I thought I heard marketing. The place has a lot of overhead to support, technicians, salespeople, advanced diagnostic equipment.
The dealership loyalty was a habit. In 2012 we bought the car at the VW dealership in Virginia. For maintenance I wanted the VW expertise, not Joe’s Garage. We went back for oil changes and minor work, we got to know the service manager, Warren. He was a solid guy, knowledgeable, helpful. He took care of us. Sandy would bake cookies for his team. He was still there years after we moved away. On return trips to Virginia we’ve stopped in to say hello.
But in our new town I got tired of the 20-mile trip to the local dealership, the costs, and long waits. We tried Graydon for oil changes and minor work.
The day after visiting Nick I got an appointment at the dealership. They’d put their experts on the job and give us a precise dollar estimate. I paid the fee for the estimate, $170, which would go toward the work if we wanted to do it.
The service person called two hours later. “We’d replace the oil pan and gasket, also the housing for the oil filter,” she said. “It would come to $3,100. The technicians also identified some front-end work that would bring the total to $5,300.”
She hurried to add, “We have some payment plans that would let you choose an amount to pay each month either over three months or five months.”
The front-end thing was news. I hadn’t noticed any front-end problem. “Thanks, we’ll talk about it,” I said. Five thousand to repair a 14-year-old car?
That afternoon we picked up the Jetta and drove home. Again I spread the tarp on the garage floor. In the morning we saw spots, no surprise. We looked without much interest at dealership ads, no inspiration.
In the morning we drove the Jetta to Jiffy Lube. Jason, the manager, put his guy, Dylan, to work. He put in five quarts of synthetic oil and a new filter, and checked the tire pressure, windshield washer fluid, and air filter. Jason gave us a $10 high-mileage discount. It came to $110.98. He added a free “top-off” deal. That will help as our new oil leaks away.
In the morning spots were on the tarp. But we didn’t spend $3,000. We can think about our next plunge into car ownership. We could get by with the van. We could drive away with a shiny new Volkswagen. Probably not.







